#Titus2TidBits Remember this: ALL battles aren’t meant to be fought- It’s about winning the War (keeping the sacred covenant with The Most High and your husband)… And I totally get it!! Sometimes you have been silent. Sometimes you have yielded. Sometimes you just let it go. BUT here’s the truth, most times we forget that the battle will cause more damage than the actual underlying issues. Meaning most times the words said out of anger, the jabs slung, the actions.. will be the cause of a bigger issue because those words and actions can’t be taken back. And while a righteous husband will forgive, he won’t forget. Even if he never mentions it again. The damage has been done and he may shut down.
My grandmother told me she would write my paw paw letters explaining how she feels etc because she found that in the heat of the moment we tend to bring up things without regard … So find better ways at communicating with your husband. A righteous man will want to hear u out.. but not EVERY SINGLE DAY… you got an issue🤦🏾♀️🥴… all battles aren’t meant to be fought! Weigh the options on if this is something minuscule.. that doesn’t even matter to be honest. Like ok., he doesn’t put his dirty shirt in the basket… IS that really the issue? Or is it something else bothering you… maybe resentment? Or bitterness? If so, that’s a you issue and not his problem sis!!.. take a moment to regroup! Listen, a better way to deal with that is go to your husband and explain that you are going thru xyz and need his help… a righteous husband will fast, pray with and for you … Keep in mind that your husband fights battles ALLL day in the world.. his home should not be a battleground.
📚 Study Notes: Proverbs 21:19, Genesis 2:24, 2 Corinthians 2:11, Eph 6:12, Hebrews 12:15, Deuteronomy 4:9, James 3:8-14❤️