Updated: May 17, 2020
Tisk, Tisk...What to do when the shoe fits? 🤷🏾♀️ I know we all want to think we are that P31..But truth is..if ya not hitting all the marks.. #Failed but keep reading sis..Keep striving to be her in the scripture ..then aim for better [Prov 31:29] ☝🏾When I read this passage online I KNEW I had to share it! I even read it line for line with Proverbs 31..Astonishing. How I saw alot of my grannies, moms, daughters, friends, sisters, aunts, nieces, cousins in the ProverbNot 31 Poem. I pray they #Repent Then start loving their husbands and children as they ought to.. You are a HELPMEET.. but acting like a HELLmate.. Don't u know what the scripture says about a contentious woman?? The truth is soo many of you judge a "good husband" on his net worth when you should be wondering if YOU my dear are even worth being caught in his net.. 🤷🏾♀️🔥..truth is bro got options! #SomebodyGonnaGetItOnThe2ndRead.. #getunstucksis and stop forgetting we are a helpmeet..and that means a multitude of the things.. It doesnt just mean helping him when he is up..But when he is down or even in between. Providing is just not about money sis..Ya got to know that..if you have a RIGHTEOUS husband then ya gotta know his intentions are pure and HE is doing the FATHER bidding. Sometimes, that means you may have to pass on that purse to pursue the purpose. #PPP Check it out: 👩🏿🦰ProverbNOT 31- an Anti-Proverbs 31 Woman🖤: A terrible wife is a dime a dozen. She is common– easily found. Her husband feels tense; his heart is never fully at rest around her. She blows through his resources and squanders his contributions. There’s never anything left over, to invest or to give. The tight finances point to a larger reality: he can’t really trust her. AND she makes it seems like it's his fault. She spends more time and energy tearing him down than building him up. Every day of her whole life is spent making him worse off. She sits around, aimlessly waiting for opportunities. Her hands are idle, because nothing magically comes her way on its own.
She does the bare minimum necessary to contribute to the nourishment and care of her family (and sometimes, not even that!). She can’t be expected to go to great lengths to bless her household. She sleeps in, and uses her time poorly. Her household often gets to mealtime without anything planned or prepared. She buys things on a whim– spending money on possessions rather than purposeful, long-range investments. She’s weak-willed and weak-bodied, and thus, unwilling and unable to do the things The Most High has put on her plate. Her efforts are spent unprofitably, on things that don’t bring fruit. If she’s up late, she’s doing impractical, useless things or spending her free time as “me time.” Her skills are few, if any, and what she does do is careless and done poorly.
She can’t afford to be generous. The money’s all gone because she’s spent it on other things. Her heart and hands are turned inward. Whatever her words say, the result of her actions and inaction reveal that her own desires eclipse the needs of others in her heart. The thought of tragedy or difficulty makes her anxious and fearful because she hasn’t properly prepared her home, her family, and herself for these possibilities. She doesn’t actively put her mind and creativity to work on improving the basic, everyday things in her home. Her husband is ridiculed and thought ill of in their community because of how poorly she's treated and talked about him. Others don’t respect him, because his wife doesn’t either. She spends her time and energies aimlessly and fruitlessly. She puts money in the pockets of merchants, rather than the other way around. Weakness, irresponsibility, and indecency are her clothing. She churns with anxiety and fear about the future. Her words are foolish; people around her are negatively influenced by her cynicism and critical attitude. Bitterness and judgments about others regularly spew from her lips. She’s stressed and concerned about all manner of things, but oblivious to the realities of what’s happening inside her own heart and home. There, her exhaustion and stress boil over into laziness and inaction. Her children rise up and can’t wait to get away from her. They curse her. Her husband also, and he can’t find anything good to say. A woman who fears The Most High is to be praised..But THIS woman’s charm is deceitful, and her beauty is in vain. Her hands are fruitless, and leave her nothing to enjoy or be praised for... 💁🏾♀️IF this sounds familiar sis..Please Please Repent and ask for The Most High to help you change your terrible ways.. start reading the bible and learn the traits of a RIGHTEOUS wife..and be her.. Surround yourself with sisters who are good wives..you know the ones who uplift..correct..and then prays with you. NOT the ones who belittle you and engages you in conversation talking ill about your husband and marriage. A TRUE Titus 2 sister will help you get back on track.. 📜Genesis 2:24 - Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. 👑Proverbs 12:4 - A virtuous woman [is] a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed [is] as rottenness in his bones.💀 🏘Proverbs 14:1 - Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands🏚 ☝🏾If anything goes against the scripture it's LIPTURE! Tomorrow we start our Vashti/Esther study..This is one story that speaks on both a Proverbs 31 and an anti P31 woman! 🔥 #Share #Repost