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Social Wives vs Real Life Wives

#DontDeleteMeSis🤦🏾‍♀️Please read entirely I pray this helps..#share

🧕🏾A Daughter of Zion may not be the most beautiful according to this lands standard.. BUT to the RIGHTEOUS she is beauty defined a thousand times over..💁🏾‍♀️ I loved seeing Brew marriages when I was on social media.. I liked the pictures...commentted ..all of that..BUT how real are they is what I often thought..Just from seeing how some of them moved.. It made me think of this question I oftentimes get asked "How can I model after our foremothers?" I wondered, sheesh some of these "wives" aren't a Sarah or Leah.. or even Eve [who took her lick like a champ for her part in the errors].. But that's the topic of today: Are you marriage material like our fore mothers?? AND.. are  u even ready for that?? I mean these women not only raised a nation but trusted in The Most High AND their husbands with their life  [1 Peter 3:5-6] Sarah reverence Abraham as "master".. why do you think that is, according to the definition.. a master is a PERSON having power AND authority over others..think about that for a min.. Dont think for a moment that there isn't a deeper story here...but for the meantime, She respects and loves The Most High so much..that she will reverence her husband in the same manner.. Remember Order: THE MOST HIGH ➡️MESSIAH➡️MAN➡️WOMAN.

The reason I say most of us women aren't ready to embody what our foremothers embodied spiritually and emotionally. They dealt with the LAW as a whole. They dealt with REAL hardcore enslavement.. Polygany .. Inferiority.. extreme medical disorders..treated less than according to today's standard..etc. however.. shouldn't we strive for that? Being that Set Apart woman? Even to go further..being set apart from the Hebrew woman of today..u know the ones who jus "know" they a brew with nice Headwraps, modest apparel.. and fringes??😑.. if ur up for the challenge: start here: Skirts and Headwraps are beautiful..BUT modesty starts inwardly.  1 Peter 3:3-4, Discretion is Life: Proverbs 11:22 ..lastly..ur NOT a man sis: Deuteronomy 22:5 .. "putting on" is deeper than pants. Dont try and be the man! Sheesh, u were never designed to be one! Stop trying to be be a pastor.. NOT one of ur jobs. BUT to not gossiping is:  1 Timothy 5:13-14, Peter 3:11.. I listed some helpful tips to prepare you for marriage outside of social media ...

1. Be obedient. This is where it starts. The 1st commandment: Exodus 20:3, Ecclesiastes 12:13, John 14:15, Luke 11:28

2. Seek to know and trust The Most High 1st. How can u be a good wife when ur NOT a good person?? Matthew 6:33-34

3. Learn your role! In order to know how to act..u must know WHO u are and what ur purpose is. Genesis 2:18, 22-24, 1 Corinthians 11:8-9 1 Peter 3:1, Ephesians 5:22-69, 1 Timothy 2:11-14, Colossians3:18,  Ecclesiasticus [Sirach] 36:24

4. Watch how you move sis! Be doers..NOT jus hearers. 1st one must master being a good woman..then a good wife.  Titus 2:3-5, Galatians 5:22-25, Ephesians 5:33, Proverbs 12:4, 1 Peter 3:5, Ecclesiasticus [Sirach] 26:14-16

5. It is ok to let him lead.. it's his house anyways!🤷🏾‍♀️ 1 Corinthians 11:3, Romans 12:21, Proverbs 12:7, Proverbs 31:11-12, Romans 14:19, Philippians 2:14

6. Tend to the home, ur helping build it up. Be his peace: Proverbs 14:1, Proverbs 31:15, Proverbs 31:27, Romans 12:2, Ephesians 5:15-16, Colossians 4:5, 2 Timothy 2:15, Ecclesiasticus [Sirach] 26:16

7. Love with no limits. Even if u feel he doesn't deserve your compassion.. remember this.. What if The Most High ain't have compassion when u were outchea all undeserving and stuff... 1 Cor 13:4-9, Hebrews 13:4

📓Good chapters to reference:

📖Proverbs 31

📕Ecclesiasticus [Sirach] 26 (Apocrypha)

🕰..After we tear down those Babylonian ways layer by layer ..Reach out and Let's build our other sisters back up 👩🏾‍🔧Ephesians 4:29

This is message isn't meant to tear down, but build up.. I pray that whomever needs this will receive it!

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Mar 30, 2020


Mar 30, 2020

Oh this is BEAUTIFUL sis! Thank TMH for this post🙌🏾💕🌹

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