I pray this message helps you as it helped me!
An expired friendship, sistership, or any kind of ship for that matter should not be considered "a beef or falling out"... Truth is there are Seasons.. just like weather changes, so does relationships.. EVERYONE is not meant to go where you are going sis.. Ecc 3 speaks on how there is a time for everything..Sirach 6 [Apcrophya] speaks on proving a friend... I suggest you add them both to your reading list.
Here's the thing.. just because we aren't close or speak daily.. Even sometimes at all.. That doesn't mean I don't love you.. It just mean whatever it was I was meant to give or recieve has been completed and vice versa! The Most High makes NO Mistakes.. this was one of the hardest most painful lessons to date I have learned.. Stopped sulking and forcing relationships! Some "ships" are not meant to stay anchored... but dock for a period of time, and then sail away.. becuase some people's time in your life may expire..just like food..and you know what happens when you don't discard expired food... #SomebodyGonnaGetItOnThe2ndRead BUT when you find those ships that stay anchored and have proven themselves to be a reason and not a season.. treasure those. Love them. Value them. How do you know which ones are reasons? They reciprocate those emotions with ACTIONS! ...And Sis, please realize that, everyone isn't meant to have a seat in your front row.. BUT it doesn't mean there has to hate or discord involved. Love is a command. Friendship is a commitment.